I started reading a light book the other day. It’s one of those books that magazines would call ‘chick lit’. It’s about a 20-something year old woman and her trials and tribulations in the dating world.
I used to love these sorts of books. I would identify with the characters sometimes. I could see how they would think about relationships and their worries. Sometimes I would just laugh at how ridiculous these women were. I mean really, how could they put up with those horrible guys? How could they not see the choices they were making? But still…I enjoyed reading about these fictional lives.
Lately, as I’ve read these books, I’ve found them to be irritating in all ways. I don’t like the characters. I don’t like the stories. Even though it’s an easy read, which I need on occasion, I’m not having the fun I used to have.
What does this mean? Am I growing up? Outgrowing chick lit?
In some ways I find this sad. A form of entertainment from my past is now gone. But I guess it was meant to happen eventually. At nearly 40, it’s probably time I start getting into more ‘mature’ books. I just have to figure out what those are. Anyone have any suggestions?
April 1, 2008 at 6:37 pm
Sorry, I read sci-fi and fantsy mostly, its not something everyone enjoys….
April 28, 2008 at 7:40 pm
Hi there! I used to be over on the Grrl Genius blog before it was removed. I read your blog sometimes.
Congrats on your one year anniversary by the way!!
I love to read so I thought I would leave you a few suggestions:
“The Good Earth”- Pearl S Buck, don’t know why, but I could not put it down
“The Kite Runner”- Khaled Hosseini (warning: kinda sad/gory in some parts)I have also heard that “A Thousand Splendid Suns” is really good, but I have not yet read it.
“Eat, Pray, Love” - Elizabeth Gilbert, I just plain loved this book!
“A Long Way Gone” is a memoir by Ishmael Beah about his life as a child soldier in Sierra Leone
“The Secret Life of Bees” - Sue Monk Kidd
“The Divine Secrets of the YaYa Sisterhood” -Rebecca Wells, she grew up in my hometown and was friends with my mom and her brothers. She writes about people in our town but gives them and the places different (but similar) names.
I also like books by Jan Karon, and one of my friends swears that Janet Evanovich is great although I haven’t read anything by her yet.
Hope you find something in this list to your liking.
Have a GREAT day!